Ahhh I just read my last blog again and it made me feel abit sad!
I’m glad to report I am much better now and no longer broke hearted.
In fact, I got revenge on Aprils fools day by texting him saying that I was preggers, resulting in him panicking, leaving work and losing £100 wages 😂 .
Luckily he saw the funny side and it’s all fine.
Gonna update you all on the new kid on the block.
He is from tinder. He has a nice smiley face. I studied his picture ALOT and decided I knew his face from the past. It took a while for me to dare ask him, but he was very chatty early on and put me at ease.
No games – replied straight back.
He looked like a guy who used to come into a cob shop that I worked in as a teenager … (cob = cake / muffin/ bap depending on where in the country you live).
I decided to ask him outright!
IT WAS HIM!😁😁😁
I had made him bacon cobs over 13 years ago!!!
He was completely astounded at how I remembered his face – as was I.
He gave me his full name to add him on Facebook and mobile number. We began chatting via text, then he randomly called me whilst he was working one day and we got in well. Lots of laughter.
We arranged a date for that week and met up. The date was informal. A pub local to us both as he lives really close by. I wore jeans and converse – I’ve never done that. We got on very well and had a couple of smooches in the car park.
Once I got in he thanked me for a great night and said I was gorgeous and funny 🙌
I liked him too and wanted to see him again. Then 2 days passed and he didn’t text😞. I remained cool and had only a mild whatsapp meltdown to my best friend☺️. I chilled out and thought about it properly – it was 1 date!
I looked on Tinder and he had been active a few minutes before 👎👎👎.
Again, remained calm.
Last week, he did ring once and ask if I wanted to go out again that week – I did but in the end , with work, the kids and holiday packing – we didn’t end up meeting. I told i’d like to meet up when I get back next week and he said he’d like that too.
He has gone very quiet in comparison to the lead up to first date. He rang me most days and text frequently. Now the calls have stopped and the texts are a rarity 😞👀.
Has he pulled back? He’s active on Tinder most days so maybe he wasn’t I to me? But why ask to see me again?
He text sat saying have a lovely holiday – I replied and asked questions about his and for the weekend… Nothing❓❓❓❓❓❓❓❗️❗️❗️
He’s frequently sending snap chats of him and his son and I send them back.
Do I ask him?